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I got back from the benefit for Winnie a while ago. It was really nice, I think, and happier than other things, that I might as well mention now.

My friend Will got killed this weekend, and I am really pretty much all messed up. I uploaded all the pictures I had of WIll here. If you knew Will, you’ll find something you love about him in these pictures. Even if you didn’t know him, you may yet. I can’t find many words, really.. Will was my friend and my brother, and I’ll miss him and be full of regret about a lot of things.

My friend snooze is also gone, today, after a slow battle with a surgery recovery. He was down a notch after a lung transplant to begin with. He fought hard.

This is a crappy time.


Comments

I’m so sorry, Chris. All attempts at comfort will sound trite, I’m sure, but I’ll be thinking of you and Amanda, and hang in there.

SayUncleJune 06, 2006 at 19:23 · reply

Sorry for your loss.

Jennifer BelewJune 06, 2006 at 20:05 · reply

Thank you so much for posting these pictures. Even though it’s hard as hell to look at them, I absolutely love them. They make me smile and cry at the same time. I sent the link along to Kristin Orr and Jennifer Knight earlier today. I’ve just been searching the Internet and reading about Will and his art and finding your blog and Lauren’s blog and Aaron’s blog, etc. I don’t even know what else to say. But thanks for the pictures. I truly appreciate them and really needed to see them.

Phil WilsonJune 06, 2006 at 20:32 · reply

Thanks for posting the pics, Chris. Even though, I’d only gotten to see him that once back in January, I still feel his loss a great deal.

missy bunchJune 06, 2006 at 23:59 · reply

Jennifer, this is Missy Bunch from MLK. I am so sorry to hear about Will. What a great guy. I still have some cartoons that he, Daniel, and Aaron drew for me and two cassette tapes they recorded for me during their band rehearsals. They are hillarious. I miss you guys and think of you often. You were a great class. I will be at Will’s service tomorrow. I hope to see some of you. Please share my email and cell with anyone from your class. I would love to hear from some of you. [email protected],424-4674

wow. six degrees. one of my wife’s best friends was very close to this guy and from everything i’ve heard it sounds like he was a great person. i’m very sorry.

missy bunchJune 07, 2006 at 00:01 · reply

Chris, thanks for the pics. This is exactly as I remember Will-always laughing. I hope to see some of you at the service tomorrow.

just got an email telling me about will. i didn’t know him too well, and that was a real shame, ‘cause he always seemed like a really nice guy. really shocking, and sad, and just terrible. i’ll remember him.

josé

I’m sorry to hear about your friends, my sincere condolences.

On a lighter note, I meant to email you sooner, it was really nice to see you and Amanda at the movies! Thanks for recognizing me!!!! Taken out of context, I never think to identify someone familiar (I swear I knew I knew you too) as a blogger.

Now I know better.

JenniferJune 08, 2006 at 00:34 · reply

I just wanted to thank you for uploading the photos. I only knew Will a little through Watkins. He always knew when I needed encouraging. He always had a smile for me when ever we saw each other. He knew just what to say to cheer me up. I was told about the accident on Monday. My hands are still shaking while I type this. I spent Monday night sick and stunned. Then I found your photos and I saw that Will lived a wonderful life. He saw beauty in the things around him, he experienced romance, friendship, and so much love. It makes my heart ache to think that he is gone. But these reminders of his life have helped me to focus on how beautiful he was and those memories of him will always be alive for me. Thank you again. Jennifer

Chris, I am so sorry that you have to go through this. After losing my friend Shannon in high school, I hoped that no one would ever have to feel that pain of losing a friend, especially someone I love. I only remember Will as the funny guy that thought of me as his friend’s annoying little sister, but I know that he was a good friend and a good person. I looked at the pictures you posted of Will, and that is how I remember him….Silly and fun to be around, someone who was a good friend to you. When someone passes away we are so sad because we miss them, and we think of the life that they had ahead if them. But Will lived the life that was planned for him, and one day we will understand how it all works. Of course, it doesn’t make losing someone you love any easier. So cry and mourn and always miss him, but remember that you were a good friend to him, and that will never die, and neither will your memories. I love you, Ashley

That would be Ashley, your sister, just in case you didn’t know….LOL, :)

KatherineJune 08, 2006 at 07:43 · reply

I’m sorry about this for you. I can’t imagine how tough it is dealing with all this death. Your friend seems like a vibrant guy who enjoyed life. I’m sorry that you had to lose him so soon.

chris, thank you for posting the news, i heard through an email. i’m really heartbroken, but not as shattered as you all must be. will was brilliant and talented. what an amazing loss to the world. i’m truly sorry.

suzy choate

Mira DeJune 09, 2006 at 22:06 · reply

So sad to hear this. a funny guy that i’ll miss. just so stunning to think he is gone.

Linda CJune 12, 2006 at 03:36 · reply

Mr. Wilson - thank you so much for sharing your story with me on Tuesday night. It was one of MANY “Will stories” that helped me feel connected to the whole great person he had become and was still becoming. There’s such a whole in my heart and I don’t think it’ll be filled, but to talk about Will and appreciate him helps. Thanks! Linda

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